Category Archives: Marriage

Have I taken a wrong decision?

Tom

I recently took a decision to leave US. In India, I am not getting any job now.

Naran

  • Take a list of decisions you took so far in your life.
  • Transform all your decisions into light and love
  • Recollect your father’s decision in his life and turn into light and love

Tom

Is it pertaining to job only?

Naran

  • No. Release all the memories of all his decisions in his life, whether pertaining to job, house, marriage or children.

Related Blogs

Like Mother Like Daughter: http://wp.me/ptUDl-56

Taking a Life Critical Decision: http://wp.me/ptUDl-16

Because of my karma, I am single

Naran

Switch words to reduce your karma

You think because of your karma you are not able to attract a good life partner. How can you handle it?

To get a good Life partner, chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE life partner HOLE

This way, by finding and applying the solution for every problem that we think is happening due of your karma, we can reduce the same.

However, the solution might be in the form of Switch words, Reiki, Bach Flower Remedies etc.

Explanation

I surrender: CONCEDE

Let there be a light: CLEAR

To go to the beginning of the problem – whether it is due to karma or not: CENTRE. Light travels to the beginning of the problem, to resolve it.

FIND the winner. Win the hands of life partner miraculously by divine.

HOLE is to attract. Wherever there is a hole, we have inquisitiveness. Hole will attract. It will increase your attractive properties.

Healing is necessary

…irrespective of how well you do in this lifetime…!!!

Grace

Referring the blog, “Marriage Affairs”: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/05/30/marriage-affairs/

Hopefully this is not always the case.

I have seen instances where the parents have a terrible relationship (separation / divorce / extortion) but the children’s relationships and marriages are fine.

How does this come to be?

There is too much resistance on my part to heal my parents but I do want to resolve my relationship issues.

If this is the only way, let me know.

Thank you!

Naran

This is the finest opportunity to heal the parents.

Past healing is a good route to make the life of the parents whole and complete. That is the gift that we can give to our parents, so that at least in their next life, they lead a happy life.

In this case, one (born to those who are divorced, but is happily married) may not repeat the parents’ life, but that of any ancestor’s good marital life.

By healing the parents’ life of discord, one does a good to one’s future generation.

Life does not start with us nor ends with us.It is an ongoing journey of a soul through generations.

Please check out! There is an upcoming Reiki Past-Life Healing Workshop: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1s

Heal the bond between your parents

Madhu

I am 32 and still not married. Whatever may I do for my relationship with whom I love, is not much working.

I am scared about my life. Yes, my parents (mom is no more alive) were not happy with each other. Their parents fixed their marriage whereas both wanted someone else. I have not seen any harmony till my childhood.

Now a day I am worried about issues like, “If I can’t marry whom I love or if I have to marry whom I can’t love or if my marital life becomes the same like my parents or even if I remain unmarried” and so on.

I am practicing the harmony exercise every day, but how can I heal my parents? And please tell me, shall I ever be happy?

Naran

Use Relationship-Bond symbol to heal your parents.

Take a printout of the symbol. Write in the second circle your parents’ names. Keep this for 42 days.

Daily chant TOGETHER DIVINE keeping your right hand on the symbol for 10 minutes.

To know more about that symbol, checkout the link:

“50 Relationship-Bond”: http://wp.me/p3zawE-1d

Marriage Affairs

You are not married

If you are not married means, find out at that age, what was the marriage status of your mother heal that.

A person is unmarried until the age of thirty, but her mother had married at the age of twenty.

Still, you need to do the healing for your mother the time before her marriage. Likewise, do for your grandmother, or father’s mother.

One of your ancestors would have been in similar situation.

Or your mother would have felt after marriage, ‘I wish I am not married. I have to go through hell. At least my daughter shouldn’t go through this’. She would have been thinking so and thus influencing your marriage status.

We don’t know what happened. So we need to go deeper into the relationship aspect and find out.

Initially, you will find it difficult to find out. Eventually, you will be able to find the link.

Living together, but mentally separated

If mentally a couple is separated, then the following things will happen in the body:

  • In the lower back herniated disk will come
  • Disk prolapse
  • Utter prolapse
  • Some organ will deviate and get down from the position like Hernia

Even if they don’t say, you will find out.

Ok I will accept whatever you say.

Outwardly they might say many positive things. But, internally they might be feeling different. That’s why we are healing the parents.

My relation with my spouse is not alright means then my parent’s relationship with each other is not good. So heal their relationship and make it whole and complete.

Then when your children get married, they will marry to a nice spouse.

Therefore, heal the relationship between your parents.

One way you do service them.

Turn Your Curses into Blessings

Barani

My mother is admitted in a hospital. She will be under-going a by-pass surgery. I am concerned, worried about her and want to take care of care.

However, she rejects my offer to help her and says she doesn’t want anything from me as she has enough support for her in the form of her husband and her son (my elder brother).

She also curses me that I am nothing but ill-luck and whatever I have touched has gone wrong.

Naran

Put the memories of her cursing words…your feelings of fear, insecurity…into the silver triangle and ask Reiki to transform everything – the whole event in to light and love.

In the past, you would have faced similar such incidents in the past.

Barani

My parents always ignored me – not in terms of money, clothes and education, whenever it comes to my feelings and opinions. Even the marriage was fixed without consulting me. I didn’t want to marry my husband as he looked little bit older. Of course, I like him a lot now.

Naran

Heal the relationship between your mother and yourself from the past and turn every event in into light and love. You may include your memories about your father and brother too.

In addition, find out whether this cursing – Anger – Fear cycle is repeatedly happening in your life currently.

Barani

Yes, it has happened in other places too.

Before marriage, I was never wanted in my friend’s circle whenever they participate in sports, though they may allow me to be a mute spectator.

Even though my husband likes me a lot, he will never listens to my suggestions. Neither does he respect my opinions. He will take his own decisions without even consulting me. In fact, he thinks he is doing a favor to me by doing so.

Naran

Put everything into the triangle and transform every event in into light and love

Finally, heal your mother’s relationship with her mother — based on whatever you have seen, heard and know.

Why a person is not married?

Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?

In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).

You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.

May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.

However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.

So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.

This also can be done by those who are happily married.

Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.

In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.

However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.

 During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.

This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.

It could have been due to your previous karma too.

Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.

From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.

Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).

Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.

If you do this you won’t lose money to in-laws

Shyla

Surprise Shock

My husband wakes me up at 4 AM in the morning.

He says, “Don’t get irritated. I just want to give you something”. It wasn’t my birthday, what he wants to give? Anyway, he doesn’t buy me anything for my birthday anyway, I wondered.

He pushed a cheque for 1 Lakh rupees into my hand. I was shocked for he doesn’t even bother to give his salary cheque to take care of our family expenses. In fact, he will give the cheque to his brother-in-law, who will decide what to do and what not do for our family. Invariably, the money goes to my extended family expenses.

I asked my husband, “What is the reason for giving this money?” He replied honestly, “I don’t why. Somebody came in my dream and said I need to give money to you Shyla”.

There is no word to explain my feelings here.

Right from my marriage, he never used to mind the expenses of our family. We have a daughter studying in college. We need to pay our house rent. For everything, I need to spend from my salary cheque, which is reasonable, but not good enough.

In another way, I am not surprised, after my experiences, due to Reiki Past-Life Healing.

Fifteen days back…

I informed Naran about my plight. He asked me whether my father had this habit of not considering his immediate family. If so, I need to heal my father’s habits by putting the memories of those behaviors inside the silver triangle.

One week after doing the healing, my brother-in-law approached and told me that he is not comfortable taking my husband’s salary, which should be given to me instead.

I took it. But Naran told me that this is not enough, as the idea is my husband should change and not just my brother-in-law.

So, I continued the healing. And the result is the one Lakh rupees cheque from my husband.

However, Naran warned me not to use this technique to exploit my husband and stop him helping his extended family, as I would incur bad karma. The idea is to make my husband committed to his immediate family. I am confident now, it is going to happen.

For how long I will be single?

Even though the situations might be different, you will have same thoughts as your mother’s, when she was of your age. The sons will take their father’s thoughts and feelings.

Savi, female, single, 27 years old

Daily – I have these thoughts “How long I have to remain unmarried? When will my marriage happen? Why nothing is happening in spite of so many healings?” “ When this will end?”

Naran

What is the key mental state here?

Savi

Frustration, irritation, and restlessness

Naran

Find out whether your mother had the same states when she was in the age period of 20 to 29 years.

Savi

At that time she was married.

Naran

It doesn’t matter. Most probably, she would be in the same state of mind as yours, from the age of 20 and 29.

Savi

During that period she begot 3 children.  During that entire period she had some physical problem – chronic fatigue syndrome/ muscular dystrophy. She had a terrible physical suffering too. She could not take any of the children in her hands and feed. Her mother – my grand-mother helped her a lot.

Naran

What would have been her state of mind?

Savi

Yes. She had exactly the same state of mind as mine, even though the events were different.

Naran

  1. Release all your memories of anger, irritations, expectations, frustrations, etc., into the Silver Triangle to transform that into light and love. Do the steps or listen to the CD for healing.
  2. Release all the memories of your mother’s physical ailments, her state of mind etc., into the Silver Triangle. Transform, release the cellular memory images (frequency) of her problem inherited from her ancestors and carried from her past lives in to the Silver Triangle. Do the steps or listen to the CD for healing.

Connect with Great Saints

Naran S Balakumar

Healing connection with Paramacharya

Last weekend, I was cleaning my attic. I happened to find the photograph of Paramacharya Chandrashekarendra Saraswati. It showed his devotees doing Kanaga Abhishekam on him. It is a prayer to seek wealth and welfare.

The photo was kept unclean. So, I felt bad and send Reiki to Paramacharya using the Silver Triangle as a sign of apology and prayer.

I didn’t know what the message is for me here, because I believe strongly that divine gives us messages and guidance through many forms.

So, I simply prayed to Paramacharya, seeking whatever healing required by me, my family, and my patients.

Connection between the lost child and her parents

Only last month, I read an article about him in a Tamil Newspaper.

The story goes like this.

An old couple approached Paramacharya. They were childless and wanted to do something back to the society – either in the form of taking care of expenses of some poor girl (as marriage expenses are taken care of by the brides’ family in this part of the world) or adopt a child. Therefore they sought his guidance.

Paramacharya asked them to contact the poor family waiting to meet him outside his abode. The old couple had a daughter who was about to get married and were looking for some financial help to get their daughter married.

 When enquired about their daughter, the daughter’s father told the old couple that they found the girl in a railway station about 15 years back.

What was surprising was that the girl was nothing but the daughter of the old couple themselves. The man is her father and the lady was her step-mother.

It is his daughter from his first marriage. After, his first wife passed away, he married his current wife. On her insistence, he left the daughter in a railway station that is far away from their home, so that she will be lost from their lives. And, he never had a child through his second marriage.

The girl was picked up by the poor couple, who were childless themselves and took care of her from then.

How Paramacharya did know this? Nobody knew that fact. But, somehow he connected the abandoned daughter with her legal parents.

Connection with right gynecologist

Kala was about to have her second child. She has major complications and couldn’t find a solution to fix them. Unfortunately, each doctor she consulted had given her different warnings, which confused her further. So she was worried and said she had to meet me immediately.

The time she came to see me, a couple was waiting for me to consult me for the first time. When I found out that the lady is gynecologist, I asked her to help Kala. The doctor obliged to see Kala immediately and gave the right consultation that was the need for the hour.

The doctor refused to take any money as she felt that only divine has made her to come to my clinic and meet Kala. I insisted that she take 200 rupees as a token of energy exchange.

However, I told her to keep it with her and not spend it, as I have understood the message from divine – here Paramacharya, that divine is offering to the doctor, a gift of wealth and welfare in the form of 200 rupees.

What is the connection with Reiki past healing and Saints?

Whenever you want to seek the guidance and blessings of Saints and Sages, or Gods for that matter, you put them in the altar in the form of silver triangle and do your prayers by drawing Reiki symbols.

 You will be able to receive their grace and rays of love from them.

While doing the prayer, make an affirmation, “I OPEN to GRACE and RAYS of LIGHT and LOVE of …. (NAME of the SAINT)”