Category Archives: Marriage
Healing is necessary
…irrespective of how well you do in this lifetime…!!!
Referring the blog, “Marriage Affairs”: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/05/30/marriage-affairs/
Hopefully this is not always the case.
I have seen instances where the parents have a terrible relationship (separation / divorce / extortion) but the children’s relationships and marriages are fine.
How does this come to be?
There is too much resistance on my part to heal my parents but I do want to resolve my relationship issues.
If this is the only way, let me know.
This is the finest opportunity to heal the parents.
Past healing is a good route to make the life of the parents whole and complete. That is the gift that we can give to our parents, so that at least in their next life, they lead a happy life.
In this case, one (born to those who are divorced, but is happily married) may not repeat the parents’ life, but that of any ancestor’s good marital life.
By healing the parents’ life of discord, one does a good to one’s future generation.
Life does not start with us nor ends with us.It is an ongoing journey of a soul through generations.
Please check out! There is an upcoming Reiki Past-Life Healing Workshop: http://wp.me/p31KXo-1s
Heal the bond between your parents
I am 32 and still not married. Whatever may I do for my relationship with whom I love, is not much working.
I am scared about my life. Yes, my parents (mom is no more alive) were not happy with each other. Their parents fixed their marriage whereas both wanted someone else. I have not seen any harmony till my childhood.
Now a day I am worried about issues like, “If I can’t marry whom I love or if I have to marry whom I can’t love or if my marital life becomes the same like my parents or even if I remain unmarried” and so on.
I am practicing the harmony exercise every day, but how can I heal my parents? And please tell me, shall I ever be happy?
Use Relationship-Bond symbol to heal your parents.
Take a printout of the symbol. Write in the second circle your parents’ names. Keep this for 42 days.
Daily chant TOGETHER DIVINE keeping your right hand on the symbol for 10 minutes.
To know more about that symbol, checkout the link:
“50 Relationship-Bond”: http://wp.me/p3zawE-1d
You are not married
If you are not married means, find out at that age, what was the marriage status of your mother heal that.
A person is unmarried until the age of thirty, but her mother had married at the age of twenty.
Still, you need to do the healing for your mother the time before her marriage. Likewise, do for your grandmother, or father’s mother.
One of your ancestors would have been in similar situation.
Or your mother would have felt after marriage, ‘I wish I am not married. I have to go through hell. At least my daughter shouldn’t go through this’. She would have been thinking so and thus influencing your marriage status.
We don’t know what happened. So we need to go deeper into the relationship aspect and find out.
Initially, you will find it difficult to find out. Eventually, you will be able to find the link.
Living together, but mentally separated
If mentally a couple is separated, then the following things will happen in the body:
- In the lower back herniated disk will come
- Disk prolapse
- Utter prolapse
- Some organ will deviate and get down from the position like Hernia
Even if they don’t say, you will find out.
Ok I will accept whatever you say.
Outwardly they might say many positive things. But, internally they might be feeling different. That’s why we are healing the parents.
My relation with my spouse is not alright means then my parent’s relationship with each other is not good. So heal their relationship and make it whole and complete.
Then when your children get married, they will marry to a nice spouse.
Therefore, heal the relationship between your parents.
One way you do service them.
Turn Your Curses into Blessings
My mother is admitted in a hospital. She will be under-going a by-pass surgery. I am concerned, worried about her and want to take care of care.
However, she rejects my offer to help her and says she doesn’t want anything from me as she has enough support for her in the form of her husband and her son (my elder brother).
She also curses me that I am nothing but ill-luck and whatever I have touched has gone wrong.
Put the memories of her cursing words…your feelings of fear, insecurity…into the silver triangle and ask Reiki to transform everything – the whole event in to light and love.
In the past, you would have faced similar such incidents in the past.
My parents always ignored me – not in terms of money, clothes and education, whenever it comes to my feelings and opinions. Even the marriage was fixed without consulting me. I didn’t want to marry my husband as he looked little bit older. Of course, I like him a lot now.
Heal the relationship between your mother and yourself from the past and turn every event in into light and love. You may include your memories about your father and brother too.
In addition, find out whether this cursing – Anger – Fear cycle is repeatedly happening in your life currently.
Yes, it has happened in other places too.
Before marriage, I was never wanted in my friend’s circle whenever they participate in sports, though they may allow me to be a mute spectator.
Even though my husband likes me a lot, he will never listens to my suggestions. Neither does he respect my opinions. He will take his own decisions without even consulting me. In fact, he thinks he is doing a favor to me by doing so.
Put everything into the triangle and transform every event in into light and love
Finally, heal your mother’s relationship with her mother — based on whatever you have seen, heard and know.
Why a person is not married?
Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?
In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).
You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.
May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.
However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.
So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.
This also can be done by those who are happily married.
Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.
In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.
However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.
During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.
This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.
It could have been due to your previous karma too.
Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.
From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.
Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).
Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.
For how long I will be single?
Even though the situations might be different, you will have same thoughts as your mother’s, when she was of your age. The sons will take their father’s thoughts and feelings.
Savi, female, single, 27 years old
Daily – I have these thoughts “How long I have to remain unmarried? When will my marriage happen? Why nothing is happening in spite of so many healings?” “ When this will end?”
What is the key mental state here?
Frustration, irritation, and restlessness
Find out whether your mother had the same states when she was in the age period of 20 to 29 years.
At that time she was married.
It doesn’t matter. Most probably, she would be in the same state of mind as yours, from the age of 20 and 29.
During that period she begot 3 children. During that entire period she had some physical problem – chronic fatigue syndrome/ muscular dystrophy. She had a terrible physical suffering too. She could not take any of the children in her hands and feed. Her mother – my grand-mother helped her a lot.
What would have been her state of mind?
Yes. She had exactly the same state of mind as mine, even though the events were different.
- Release all your memories of anger, irritations, expectations, frustrations, etc., into the Silver Triangle to transform that into light and love. Do the steps or listen to the CD for healing.
- Release all the memories of your mother’s physical ailments, her state of mind etc., into the Silver Triangle. Transform, release the cellular memory images (frequency) of her problem inherited from her ancestors and carried from her past lives in to the Silver Triangle. Do the steps or listen to the CD for healing.