You are angry that somebody has cheated you. You are in a specific frequency.
The person who has cheated wants to take the money for his own good. His intention was to make money and not to cheat you. It is only an action and not an intention to cheat you. So, his frequency is different from yours.
Therefore, if you keep cursing him, your thoughts don’t affect him as he was thinking in a different frequency from yours. The implication is that those thoughts keep you under the curse forever.
It has to be healed. Otherwise, you will invite such incidents in the future.
Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?
In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).
You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.
May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.
However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.
So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.
This also can be done by those who are happily married.
Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.
In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.
However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.
During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.
This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.
It could have been due to your previous karma too.
Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.
From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.
Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).
Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.
In the last class, some person shared her experiences of (past-life) healing her pregnancy period (using Silver Triangle and Reiki). She said she could feel the movement of the fetus, while doing so.
She healed the whole pregnancy period, which is very essential.
She has two children. The first child, who is 14 years old, never used to talk to his mother properly. He took her for granted.
She did the healing at the Bach Flower centre.
After the first session, when she went back home, her first son came to her and embraced her. It was the first time in her life, which she never expected.
Each and every exercise is powerful. Our intention is important. With proper intention, we can heal anything from the past.