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Keys to healing
Posted by Elsol
Naran
In any situation for any problem, take up a keyword in the situation. For example, let us take the keyword UNCERTAINTY. Your mind should get to that state of mind.
Some people are financially insecure by which they are unstable. Some people want to get married; they are not getting married, so that they feel unstable. Some people may have a back pain, thinking where is my place in the family? That is also insecurity.
Others feel uncertainty about position in the family or in the office. Anytime in your life you would have felt that, either in the office, with friends or as far as finance is concerned, you would have felt unstable.
The uncertainty of the present is related to uncertainty in the past. In the last 40 years, when did you feel uncertain? You would have felt unstable many times.
Think about that. It would have been almost the same situation or a different situation with the same feeling – feeling uncertain. Think whether your mother had the uncertainty.
Those days the feeling uncertainty would be revealed only in the form of anger. They always express through anger and beat the children. They can’t go out. They can’t divorce either. The women’s life about 50-60 years back was hell and horrible.
Now do the same for the memories of father’s uncertainty.
In any situation there will be a predominate state of mind – is the keyword. Check when you had similar feeling in the past. List them out.
If possible check out with your mother’s behavior and feeling – when they felt uncertain. It will match yours. Do the same for your father. Your father would have felt uncertain in his job.
Put all of them in the triangle and heal them.
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Turn Your Curses into Blessings
Posted by Elsol
Barani
My mother is admitted in a hospital. She will be under-going a by-pass surgery. I am concerned, worried about her and want to take care of care.
However, she rejects my offer to help her and says she doesn’t want anything from me as she has enough support for her in the form of her husband and her son (my elder brother).
She also curses me that I am nothing but ill-luck and whatever I have touched has gone wrong.
Naran
Put the memories of her cursing words…your feelings of fear, insecurity…into the silver triangle and ask Reiki to transform everything – the whole event in to light and love.
In the past, you would have faced similar such incidents in the past.
Barani
My parents always ignored me – not in terms of money, clothes and education, whenever it comes to my feelings and opinions. Even the marriage was fixed without consulting me. I didn’t want to marry my husband as he looked little bit older. Of course, I like him a lot now.
Naran
Heal the relationship between your mother and yourself from the past and turn every event in into light and love. You may include your memories about your father and brother too.
In addition, find out whether this cursing – Anger – Fear cycle is repeatedly happening in your life currently.
Barani
Yes, it has happened in other places too.
Before marriage, I was never wanted in my friend’s circle whenever they participate in sports, though they may allow me to be a mute spectator.
Even though my husband likes me a lot, he will never listens to my suggestions. Neither does he respect my opinions. He will take his own decisions without even consulting me. In fact, he thinks he is doing a favor to me by doing so.
Naran
Put everything into the triangle and transform every event in into light and love
Finally, heal your mother’s relationship with her mother — based on whatever you have seen, heard and know.
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Doors to Heaven and Hell
Posted by Elsol
The following story is an adaptation of a parable of Sri Ramakrishna.
Suresh and Velu were good friends. One evening while walking through the streets, they passed by an auditorium.
From a banner displayed outside, they learnt that a discourse on the Bhagavatham by a renowned Swamiji was taking place at that venue.
Suresh turned to Velu and said “Hey, let us go in and listen to him”.
Velu shook his head and said, “Have you heard of a call-girl who has just moved into our town? I would like to go there”.
Suresh’s jaw dropped in shock. He burst out to Velu, “Are you out of your mind? Visiting a prostitute indeed! What you are contemplating is a sin!”
Suresh entered the auditorium to listen to the lecture, while Velu wended his way to meet the prostitute.
Different doors lead to unexpected exits
The Swamiji spoke for an hour and a half and he really excelled himself.
From the very beginning Suresh’s mind was playing truant. His mind kept conjuring up lurid images of Velu and the prostitute.
The net result was that not even a single word of the discourse failed to register in his mind.
At the same time, Velu’s mind, while he was with the prostitute, was overwhelmed by self-disgust.
He thought to himself “Oh! What a miserable wretch I am! Why did I allow my mind to lead me into temptation? Why did I have to satisfy my curiosity?
“Oh! How lucky Suresh is! He must be sitting in the auditorium listening to the fascinating tales of Krishna. I can actually picture what it would be like”.
In this vein, his thoughts ran on constantly.
Heaven and Hell are due to our mind
In course of time, the two friends died and Suresh was shocked to find himself in hell while his friend Velu was in heaven.
Bewildered and a little angry, he asked God “Is this some joke? Our positions have been switched. Surely I deserve to be in Heaven and Velu in hell. After all when I was sitting devoutly in the discourse, he was dallying with a prostitute!”
God smiled, shook his head and said “Son, I agree you were present at the discourse when your friend was with the prostitute. But important question is where your respective minds were?”
Physically Present Mentally Absent
If one is physically present but mentally somewhere, the flower remedies ROCK WATER and CHESTNUT BUD can correct this.
It is the mind which is doing the karma; whether the body follows the mind or not, it is the working of the mind which is concerned with all our action (Karma).
Read the first part of the article – on Rock Water, here: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/denying-pleasures/
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