Heal your relationships with your parents. It is very important. For your life outside, your life inside the house should be harmonious.
Right from the time beginning, you might not been thinking in line with your parents. Your views could be different from them. What did they say about you – something that they didn’t like about you?
When you heal your relationship with your parents – either with mother or father, doing separately, making it whole and complete, your relationships with your children will improve too.
Therefore, it is most important.
How did we react to them?
Whatever opinions you had about them, convert them into light and love. We need not worry about their opinions here.
Thank them a lot for whatever they had done to you. Thank them profusely.
Only because you had born to them, you have entered into the world of healing. Therefore, do the healing of your relationship with your parents first.
Go back, to the Past
If we have to go to the past, then what is the past? Who are we?
Do we really die? Nobody dies.
What about my father who died? He is still alive. Even people who died thousand years back, they are still alive.
Science says that.
Where they are alive?
There are two worlds existing simultaneously. One is the physical world and another is the energy world.
Physically a person may die, but energy wise they don’t die.
How they are alive? They are alive as a person with all incomplete emotions, thoughts, beliefs and aspirations. Everything is incomplete and influencing the progeny.
Our ancestors are still influencing us in the energy world. Physically we don’t feel that, but energy wise, they are constantly influencing us.
What does that mean?
How this energy is transformed into physical body and mind? You may ask.
Every time, something happens between the physical world and the energy field, we keep them as memories inside our brain.
The brain knows how to keep it, has tools to remember it and to act from the past – the memory, influenced by the people who are dead.
It means we are not “we” as such. We are our parents. We are our ancestors.
If we are reacting in a particular way, then your mother (or father) also would have reacted in the same way.
So what we are going to do is, analyze the present problem, go back in your own life and go back to your mother’s life (or father’s life or both), and make them whole and complete, for they remain incomplete.
Unless, they are complete (past), we can’t be complete (future) either.