Why a person is not married?
Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?
In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).
You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.
May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.
However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.
So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.
This also can be done by those who are happily married.
Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.
In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.
However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.
During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.
This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.
It could have been due to your previous karma too.
Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.
From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.
Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).
Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.
For how long I will be single?
Even though the situations might be different, you will have same thoughts as your mother’s, when she was of your age. The sons will take their father’s thoughts and feelings.
Savi, female, single, 27 years old
Daily – I have these thoughts “How long I have to remain unmarried? When will my marriage happen? Why nothing is happening in spite of so many healings?” “ When this will end?”
What is the key mental state here?
Frustration, irritation, and restlessness
Find out whether your mother had the same states when she was in the age period of 20 to 29 years.
At that time she was married.
It doesn’t matter. Most probably, she would be in the same state of mind as yours, from the age of 20 and 29.
During that period she begot 3 children. During that entire period she had some physical problem – chronic fatigue syndrome/ muscular dystrophy. She had a terrible physical suffering too. She could not take any of the children in her hands and feed. Her mother – my grand-mother helped her a lot.
What would have been her state of mind?
Yes. She had exactly the same state of mind as mine, even though the events were different.
- Release all your memories of anger, irritations, expectations, frustrations, etc., into the Silver Triangle to transform that into light and love. Do the steps or listen to the CD for healing.
- Release all the memories of your mother’s physical ailments, her state of mind etc., into the Silver Triangle. Transform, release the cellular memory images (frequency) of her problem inherited from her ancestors and carried from her past lives in to the Silver Triangle. Do the steps or listen to the CD for healing.