Heal your relationships with your parents. It is very important. For your life outside, your life inside the house should be harmonious.
Right from the time beginning, you might not been thinking in line with your parents. Your views could be different from them. What did they say about you – something that they didn’t like about you?
When you heal your relationship with your parents – either with mother or father, doing separately, making it whole and complete, your relationships with your children will improve too.
Therefore, it is most important.
How did we react to them?
Whatever opinions you had about them, convert them into light and love. We need not worry about their opinions here.
Thank them a lot for whatever they had done to you. Thank them profusely.
Only because you had born to them, you have entered into the world of healing. Therefore, do the healing of your relationship with your parents first.
What is the karma that has made me take this birth? Let us see how to put it in the triangle.
Any of our memories unaligned i.e., not aligned with the divine light I will say as non-divine.
Anything that is non-divine we will put it in the silver triangle.
I release all the unaligned memories acquired from my three previous births, and unaligned memories of my parents and ancestors that have caused my birth into this silver triangle.
I draw the Reiki symbols – both traditional and Karuna Reiki symbols.
I affirm the following now:
- “Reiki Flow into the silver triangle”
- “Heal and transform all the unaligned non-divine memory frequencies of my past life, unaligned non-divine memory frequencies of my parents and ancestors into Reiki frequency of light and love”.
- “Transform them into Reiki frequency of Light and Love”.
- “Make them whole and complete”.
- “Now, every memory frequency of my past life is healed and has been made whole and complete.
This is the basic healing procedure to heal our karma. Nothing can be simpler than this.
My mother is admitted in a hospital. She will be under-going a by-pass surgery. I am concerned, worried about her and want to take care of care.
However, she rejects my offer to help her and says she doesn’t want anything from me as she has enough support for her in the form of her husband and her son (my elder brother).
She also curses me that I am nothing but ill-luck and whatever I have touched has gone wrong.
Put the memories of her cursing words…your feelings of fear, insecurity…into the silver triangle and ask Reiki to transform everything – the whole event in to light and love.
In the past, you would have faced similar such incidents in the past.
My parents always ignored me – not in terms of money, clothes and education, whenever it comes to my feelings and opinions. Even the marriage was fixed without consulting me. I didn’t want to marry my husband as he looked little bit older. Of course, I like him a lot now.
Heal the relationship between your mother and yourself from the past and turn every event in into light and love. You may include your memories about your father and brother too.
In addition, find out whether this cursing – Anger – Fear cycle is repeatedly happening in your life currently.
Yes, it has happened in other places too.
Before marriage, I was never wanted in my friend’s circle whenever they participate in sports, though they may allow me to be a mute spectator.
Even though my husband likes me a lot, he will never listens to my suggestions. Neither does he respect my opinions. He will take his own decisions without even consulting me. In fact, he thinks he is doing a favor to me by doing so.
Put everything into the triangle and transform every event in into light and love
Finally, heal your mother’s relationship with her mother — based on whatever you have seen, heard and know.