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For the last 18 years, I was passing through a tremendous unbearable life situations.
My husband was jailed on false implications. More than 15 cases were filed against him. All of my relatives fled away. We vacated our house.
My son’s marriage was doomed.
Take a list of the events one by one since the beginning of bad period.
Find out common thread of your thoughts/feelings….
- Transform each and every event along with its emotion into light and love
- I release all the cell memory images of my shock, helplessness triggered/activated by my husband’s arrest into the Silver Triangle.
- I release all my thoughts “Why this to us? There is no place in this world for the good… whoever behind this let them go to hell” into the triangle.
- Like this recollect all your emotions, thoughts with every event and transform into light and love.
- All the same age of yours, your mother also would have had the same feelings. Just rewrite the releasing statement and don’t mention any event. For example, I release the memory images of my mother’s shock.
- You can also do this: I release all the cellular memory images of my shock, helplessness etc inherited from my ancestors carried from my past life into the Silver Triangle.
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Doors to Heaven and Hell
The following story is an adaptation of a parable of Sri Ramakrishna.
Suresh and Velu were good friends. One evening while walking through the streets, they passed by an auditorium.
From a banner displayed outside, they learnt that a discourse on the Bhagavatham by a renowned Swamiji was taking place at that venue.
Suresh turned to Velu and said “Hey, let us go in and listen to him”.
Velu shook his head and said, “Have you heard of a call-girl who has just moved into our town? I would like to go there”.
Suresh’s jaw dropped in shock. He burst out to Velu, “Are you out of your mind? Visiting a prostitute indeed! What you are contemplating is a sin!”
Suresh entered the auditorium to listen to the lecture, while Velu wended his way to meet the prostitute.
Different doors lead to unexpected exits
The Swamiji spoke for an hour and a half and he really excelled himself.
From the very beginning Suresh’s mind was playing truant. His mind kept conjuring up lurid images of Velu and the prostitute.
The net result was that not even a single word of the discourse failed to register in his mind.
At the same time, Velu’s mind, while he was with the prostitute, was overwhelmed by self-disgust.
He thought to himself “Oh! What a miserable wretch I am! Why did I allow my mind to lead me into temptation? Why did I have to satisfy my curiosity?
“Oh! How lucky Suresh is! He must be sitting in the auditorium listening to the fascinating tales of Krishna. I can actually picture what it would be like”.
In this vein, his thoughts ran on constantly.
Heaven and Hell are due to our mind
In course of time, the two friends died and Suresh was shocked to find himself in hell while his friend Velu was in heaven.
Bewildered and a little angry, he asked God “Is this some joke? Our positions have been switched. Surely I deserve to be in Heaven and Velu in hell. After all when I was sitting devoutly in the discourse, he was dallying with a prostitute!”
God smiled, shook his head and said “Son, I agree you were present at the discourse when your friend was with the prostitute. But important question is where your respective minds were?”
Physically Present Mentally Absent
If one is physically present but mentally somewhere, the flower remedies ROCK WATER and CHESTNUT BUD can correct this.
It is the mind which is doing the karma; whether the body follows the mind or not, it is the working of the mind which is concerned with all our action (Karma).
Read the first part of the article – on Rock Water, here: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/denying-pleasures/
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Torture continued after death
Viji is a pranic healer. She also knows Reiki healing. As an experienced healer, she could scan and read aura of a person. She approached Naran, as her brother – a tough nut, harasses her parents all the time. She wanted to find out how this situation can be resolved amicably.
Firstly, put your behavior of your brother into the silver triangle.
Secondly, put your parents’ reactions as well as yours into it.
Do you know anybody in the family who behaves the same way as your brother?
Yes, based on my mother’s account my brother has inherited the qualities of my grand-father.
Put the memories related to your grand-father into the silver triangle and complete the general steps of healing.
Viji did the healing for some time and came back to Naran in an excited mood.
You won’t believe what I am going to say.
When I finished the exercise I could see the soul of my grand-mother getting freed from all the sufferings she went through in her life-time due to my grand-father. I could feel her gratitude towards me too.
This shows at an energy level we carry our pains and sorrows we faced while living in the physical world. Thanks to you, your grand-mother is freed from her pains.
How will it help her now?
If she has taken another physical birth now then all her sufferings that she would be facing will disappear and won’t continue in her future lifetimes.
Today, you have done a great favor not only to her, but to your parents as well as to yourself.
If you continue to do this exercise, you will see a world of difference in your brother too, who has taken the behavior of his grand-father.
Viji (after a week)
I find no improvement in my brother.
I repeated what I said. She said she had stopped after first time.
What for you have started this?
I wanted to heal my brother.
Then you should have continued. You should not have stopped after healing your grand-mother.
Only, when you continue the healing you will understand what else to put in the triangle, for example, his past behaviour, your past reaction, his mother’s reaction etc.
Then you will go deeper and find more insights.
Normally people do not continue. To emphasize that, I told her to do so.
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Why a person is not married?
Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?
In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).
You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.
May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.
However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.
So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.
This also can be done by those who are happily married.
Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.
In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.
However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.
During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.
This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.
It could have been due to your previous karma too.
Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.
From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.
Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).
Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.
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If you do this you won’t lose money to in-laws
My husband wakes me up at 4 AM in the morning.
He says, “Don’t get irritated. I just want to give you something”. It wasn’t my birthday, what he wants to give? Anyway, he doesn’t buy me anything for my birthday anyway, I wondered.
He pushed a cheque for 1 Lakh rupees into my hand. I was shocked for he doesn’t even bother to give his salary cheque to take care of our family expenses. In fact, he will give the cheque to his brother-in-law, who will decide what to do and what not do for our family. Invariably, the money goes to my extended family expenses.
I asked my husband, “What is the reason for giving this money?” He replied honestly, “I don’t why. Somebody came in my dream and said I need to give money to you Shyla”.
There is no word to explain my feelings here.
Right from my marriage, he never used to mind the expenses of our family. We have a daughter studying in college. We need to pay our house rent. For everything, I need to spend from my salary cheque, which is reasonable, but not good enough.
In another way, I am not surprised, after my experiences, due to Reiki Past-Life Healing.
Fifteen days back…
I informed Naran about my plight. He asked me whether my father had this habit of not considering his immediate family. If so, I need to heal my father’s habits by putting the memories of those behaviors inside the silver triangle.
One week after doing the healing, my brother-in-law approached and told me that he is not comfortable taking my husband’s salary, which should be given to me instead.
I took it. But Naran told me that this is not enough, as the idea is my husband should change and not just my brother-in-law.
So, I continued the healing. And the result is the one Lakh rupees cheque from my husband.
However, Naran warned me not to use this technique to exploit my husband and stop him helping his extended family, as I would incur bad karma. The idea is to make my husband committed to his immediate family. I am confident now, it is going to happen.
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Connect with Great Saints
Naran S Balakumar
Healing connection with Paramacharya
Last weekend, I was cleaning my attic. I happened to find the photograph of Paramacharya Chandrashekarendra Saraswati. It showed his devotees doing Kanaga Abhishekam on him. It is a prayer to seek wealth and welfare.
The photo was kept unclean. So, I felt bad and send Reiki to Paramacharya using the Silver Triangle as a sign of apology and prayer.
I didn’t know what the message is for me here, because I believe strongly that divine gives us messages and guidance through many forms.
So, I simply prayed to Paramacharya, seeking whatever healing required by me, my family, and my patients.
Connection between the lost child and her parents
Only last month, I read an article about him in a Tamil Newspaper.
The story goes like this.
An old couple approached Paramacharya. They were childless and wanted to do something back to the society – either in the form of taking care of expenses of some poor girl (as marriage expenses are taken care of by the brides’ family in this part of the world) or adopt a child. Therefore they sought his guidance.
Paramacharya asked them to contact the poor family waiting to meet him outside his abode. The old couple had a daughter who was about to get married and were looking for some financial help to get their daughter married.
When enquired about their daughter, the daughter’s father told the old couple that they found the girl in a railway station about 15 years back.
What was surprising was that the girl was nothing but the daughter of the old couple themselves. The man is her father and the lady was her step-mother.
It is his daughter from his first marriage. After, his first wife passed away, he married his current wife. On her insistence, he left the daughter in a railway station that is far away from their home, so that she will be lost from their lives. And, he never had a child through his second marriage.
The girl was picked up by the poor couple, who were childless themselves and took care of her from then.
How Paramacharya did know this? Nobody knew that fact. But, somehow he connected the abandoned daughter with her legal parents.
Connection with right gynecologist
Kala was about to have her second child. She has major complications and couldn’t find a solution to fix them. Unfortunately, each doctor she consulted had given her different warnings, which confused her further. So she was worried and said she had to meet me immediately.
The time she came to see me, a couple was waiting for me to consult me for the first time. When I found out that the lady is gynecologist, I asked her to help Kala. The doctor obliged to see Kala immediately and gave the right consultation that was the need for the hour.
The doctor refused to take any money as she felt that only divine has made her to come to my clinic and meet Kala. I insisted that she take 200 rupees as a token of energy exchange.
However, I told her to keep it with her and not spend it, as I have understood the message from divine – here Paramacharya, that divine is offering to the doctor, a gift of wealth and welfare in the form of 200 rupees.
What is the connection with Reiki past healing and Saints?
Whenever you want to seek the guidance and blessings of Saints and Sages, or Gods for that matter, you put them in the altar in the form of silver triangle and do your prayers by drawing Reiki symbols.
You will be able to receive their grace and rays of love from them.
While doing the prayer, make an affirmation, “I OPEN to GRACE and RAYS of LIGHT and LOVE of …. (NAME of the SAINT)”
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By-Pass Negative Operations
My aunt was about to go through a by-pass surgery. From the moment I heard about it, I had a sense of apprehension that I had never felt before about surgical operations and death.
Initially, I thought this could be an intuition. Then I realized, maybe I was reliving my mother’s death. My mother had passed away after undergoing an operation to remove her uterus.
Based on the instructions from Naran, I put all my fears about operations into the silver triangle. I did the other healing steps too over a week.
What followed was very touching…
The operation was successful of course. But it was sponsored by my cousin instead of my uncle – who is a more self-respecting person. Firstly, the latter received the money with grace from his son.
Secondly, the operation was done by the best team in the hospital due to some unforeseen circumstances.
Thirdly, even though, my cousin’s house was just opposite to his parents, they had never stayed there even once. They had visited his house only for five times during the whole period of 20 years of his stay in that house, which is strange considering the practices followed in this part of the world.
I felt this is important as my cousin was not happy about that and mentioned to me about it a couple of months back. Now to the relief of my cousin, his parents had gracefully accepted his help and support.
If somebody would have asked anybody in our family, whether my cousin’s parents would be staying in my cousin’s house in order to recuperate, all of us would have univocally said, “No way”.
In fact, my uncle was planning to move away from his children in a fit of anger a couple of months ago.
Instead, now everything happened with the touch of a divine. I definitely think the past-life healing has helped to create such a situation.
In the past-life healing workshop Naran told us…
If we heal the deceased properly then they will appear in our dream.
In fact, I did the healing not only for my mother, but for my other two aunts who had passed away after afflicted by cancer.
One of them appeared in my dream and pointed my attention to another aunt, who had died because of poor handling of her pregnancy and developed cancer in Uterus for the same reason.
Please note here, my mother also died due to same reason. In fact, all the three of them had died due to cancer.
The story didn’t end here…
I thought there has to be a connection here – one aunt pointing to another aunt. I feared, like the latter, my friend Poornima who was expecting in another two week’s time might have some problems too. The reason for the fear she had done several operations in the past. So, I thought she might have a difficult delivery like my aunt.
So the very next day, I called up Poornima to check upon her. She didn’t pick the phone as she was undergoing a cesarean at the same time. The doctors attending to her had felt that it was safe to operate on her immediately. She gave birth to a son after the operation was successfully preponed.
I see some connection here too – a connection pointed to me by my aunt.
Many thanks to my aunts, my mother, Reiki and Naran for a couple successful operations!!!
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