Why a person is not married?

Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?

In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).

You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.

May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.

However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.

So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.

This also can be done by those who are happily married.

Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.

In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.

However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.

 During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.

This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.

It could have been due to your previous karma too.

Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.

From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.

Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).

Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.

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If you do this you won’t lose money to in-laws

Shyla

Surprise Shock

My husband wakes me up at 4 AM in the morning.

He says, “Don’t get irritated. I just want to give you something”. It wasn’t my birthday, what he wants to give? Anyway, he doesn’t buy me anything for my birthday anyway, I wondered.

He pushed a cheque for 1 Lakh rupees into my hand. I was shocked for he doesn’t even bother to give his salary cheque to take care of our family expenses. In fact, he will give the cheque to his brother-in-law, who will decide what to do and what not do for our family. Invariably, the money goes to my extended family expenses.

I asked my husband, “What is the reason for giving this money?” He replied honestly, “I don’t why. Somebody came in my dream and said I need to give money to you Shyla”.

There is no word to explain my feelings here.

Right from my marriage, he never used to mind the expenses of our family. We have a daughter studying in college. We need to pay our house rent. For everything, I need to spend from my salary cheque, which is reasonable, but not good enough.

In another way, I am not surprised, after my experiences, due to Reiki Past-Life Healing.

Fifteen days back…

I informed Naran about my plight. He asked me whether my father had this habit of not considering his immediate family. If so, I need to heal my father’s habits by putting the memories of those behaviors inside the silver triangle.

One week after doing the healing, my brother-in-law approached and told me that he is not comfortable taking my husband’s salary, which should be given to me instead.

I took it. But Naran told me that this is not enough, as the idea is my husband should change and not just my brother-in-law.

So, I continued the healing. And the result is the one Lakh rupees cheque from my husband.

However, Naran warned me not to use this technique to exploit my husband and stop him helping his extended family, as I would incur bad karma. The idea is to make my husband committed to his immediate family. I am confident now, it is going to happen.