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Keys to healing

Naran

In any situation for any problem, take up a keyword in the situation. For example, let us take the keyword UNCERTAINTY. Your mind should get to that state of mind.

Some people are financially insecure by which they are unstable. Some people want to get married; they are not getting married, so that they feel unstable. Some people may have a back pain, thinking where is my place in the family? That is also insecurity.

Others feel uncertainty about position in the family or in the office.  Anytime in your life you would have felt that, either in the office, with friends or as far as finance is concerned, you would have felt unstable.

The uncertainty of the present is related to uncertainty in the past. In the last 40 years, when did you feel uncertain? You would have felt unstable many times.

Think about that. It would have been almost the same situation or a different situation with the same feeling – feeling uncertain. Think whether your mother had the uncertainty.

Those days the feeling uncertainty would be revealed only in the form of anger. They always express through anger and beat the children. They can’t go out. They can’t divorce either. The women’s life about 50-60 years back was hell and horrible.

Now do the same for the memories of father’s uncertainty.

In any situation there will be a predominate state of mind – is the keyword. Check when you had similar feeling in the past. List them out.

If possible check out with your mother’s behavior and feeling – when they felt uncertain. It will match yours. Do the same for your father. Your father would have felt uncertain in his job.

Put all of them in the triangle and heal them.

Have I taken a wrong decision?

Tom

I recently took a decision to leave US. In India, I am not getting any job now.

Naran

  • Take a list of decisions you took so far in your life.
  • Transform all your decisions into light and love
  • Recollect your father’s decision in his life and turn into light and love

Tom

Is it pertaining to job only?

Naran

  • No. Release all the memories of all his decisions in his life, whether pertaining to job, house, marriage or children.

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Throw the Silk Shawl in the Fire

A Story

Appayya Dikshitar was doing the sacred fire ritual on behalf of a Chola King.

The King in appreciation for the Homam (fire ritual) done by the priest, gave the latter a Silk Shawl.

While offering Ghee, and other stuff to the sacred fire as part of the ritual, the Dikshitar offered the silk shawl too.

Hearing about this, the King got enraged and went to the temple to meet the Dikshitar. There he found the silk shawl was adorning the main idol of the temple.

When the Dikshitar was quizzed about this he said, “You sincerely offered the shawl to me. I too offered it to the god with sincerity. For the same reasons, the god has accepted our offerings in full. This is the significance of the incident”.

Offer Everything to the Silver Triangle

Let us offer everything to the Silver Triangle as it is nothing but the Homa Kundam, where we offer our memories in the form of fears, desires, expectations, frustrations etc.

By this act of surrendering we achieve what we want.

Surrendering – Why and How?

When you are obsessed with worry and fear you are breaking the quantum rules. Your fear will manifest the one which you don’t want, instead of getting what you want.

Desire something. Quieten your mind, relax and release it to the divine field.

Approaching anything with the calm and relaxed mind has got better chance of getting what we want.

That is where the surrendering attitude enters. By surrendering the desire to the divine field, you accept what the divine offers. Surrendering makes you think that whatever divine offer is good for me.

Know that you cannot change anything with your will. To make things happen your will and divine will should unite.

The link is the surrendering attitude.

Surrendering is Samarpanam. Samarpanam is keeping all our words, prayers and actions at the feet of Divine with the intention to accept whatever he offers.