Heal your relationships with your parents. It is very important. For your life outside, your life inside the house should be harmonious.
Right from the time beginning, you might not been thinking in line with your parents. Your views could be different from them. What did they say about you – something that they didn’t like about you?
When you heal your relationship with your parents – either with mother or father, doing separately, making it whole and complete, your relationships with your children will improve too.
Therefore, it is most important.
How did we react to them?
Whatever opinions you had about them, convert them into light and love. We need not worry about their opinions here.
Thank them a lot for whatever they had done to you. Thank them profusely.
Only because you had born to them, you have entered into the world of healing. Therefore, do the healing of your relationship with your parents first.
I want to report that the silver triangle technique is working wonders in my life.
Resentments and patterns are changing more and more every day. Many of the painful thoughts I used to have are just gone.
My relationship with my parents is better and I can see more clearly what other steps to take in correcting some of the other unwanted aspects of my life.
I have felt guided to do more forgiveness and cut more cords (I have Naran’s CD).
I encourage everyone to try to imagine the triangle as Naran has asked.
It’s been my experience that you do not need to know how…you just need to try it as Naran has guided. Also trust yourself to do it completely…do not try it in a half-hearted way.
I want to point out I have no training in such things. Just FAITH!!!
My mother is admitted in a hospital. She will be under-going a by-pass surgery. I am concerned, worried about her and want to take care of care.
However, she rejects my offer to help her and says she doesn’t want anything from me as she has enough support for her in the form of her husband and her son (my elder brother).
She also curses me that I am nothing but ill-luck and whatever I have touched has gone wrong.
Put the memories of her cursing words…your feelings of fear, insecurity…into the silver triangle and ask Reiki to transform everything – the whole event in to light and love.
In the past, you would have faced similar such incidents in the past.
My parents always ignored me – not in terms of money, clothes and education, whenever it comes to my feelings and opinions. Even the marriage was fixed without consulting me. I didn’t want to marry my husband as he looked little bit older. Of course, I like him a lot now.
Heal the relationship between your mother and yourself from the past and turn every event in into light and love. You may include your memories about your father and brother too.
In addition, find out whether this cursing – Anger – Fear cycle is repeatedly happening in your life currently.
Yes, it has happened in other places too.
Before marriage, I was never wanted in my friend’s circle whenever they participate in sports, though they may allow me to be a mute spectator.
Even though my husband likes me a lot, he will never listens to my suggestions. Neither does he respect my opinions. He will take his own decisions without even consulting me. In fact, he thinks he is doing a favor to me by doing so.
Put everything into the triangle and transform every event in into light and love
Finally, heal your mother’s relationship with her mother — based on whatever you have seen, heard and know.
Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?
In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).
You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.
May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.
However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.
So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.
This also can be done by those who are happily married.
Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.
In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.
However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.
During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.
This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.
It could have been due to your previous karma too.
Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.
From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.
Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).
Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.