Why a person is not married?

Question – In my extended family, none of them are single, except for me. How the past-healing can be used to handle this situation?

In one of your previous lifetimes – take the last three, in one lifetime, you would have had an unhappy marriage and decided that you will never marry again (in future lifetimes).

You need to heal that marriage first, before you take steps to get married.

May be this situation is temporary. Your parents when they were single they would have been rejected by two suitors.

However, you are rejected by multiple suitors. One day you will find a suitor too, if this is the case.

So to heal this situation, visualize your parents when they were single, and send Reiki to them with an intention, “Reiki flow through me and heal my parents when they were single and give a happy married life”.

This also can be done by those who are happily married.

Question – my parents lead a happy married life for more than 40 years. However, being their only daughter, I am divorced and didn’t have a happy married life.

In general, your parents would have lived a happy married life.

However, they might have had small conflicts now and then, which is common for any marriage.

 During one of those fights, your mother would have thought, “Why do I live with this guy? I wish I could divorce him and lead a life of single, which is trouble-free by all means”.

This thought would have been picked by you and would have resulted in your marriage.

It could have been due to your previous karma too.

Interestingly, your sister might not pick that thought and will be leading a happy married life.

From your perspective, you need to handle those negative thoughts of your mother as well as your marriages from the past. Take the last three and heal it.

Heal the marriage of your ancestors –grandmother (paternal) and grandmother (maternal).

Sometimes you may have memories of your aunts (from both sides). Heal their relationship too.


About Elsol

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 21 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on January 16, 2013, in Ancestors, Children, Marriage, Parents, Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.

  1. All of these solutions are really resonating with me for some reason.

  2. Dear Sir,
    I met a guy on matrimonial site and since than we have become good friends. I have the foll queries for which i need your help and guidance.
    1) He is unable to feel any emotions for anybody, as what i understand he had to take care of his family financially from an early age.
    2) His parents did not have a good marriage and he saw lot of fights between them.
    3) He loved only 1 girl but she used him and got married and he is unable to forget her and move on
    4) He says that he wants to love, nurture and take care of special person but feels emotionally numb.
    5)He also feels that his heart is numb, which has led to impotency.

    He likes me but because the way he feels, he does not think he will every marry. I have always turned to you for help and have always recieved answers to all my big n small problems time and again.

    Pls let me know, how to help but he may not do anything suggested due to non belief. If i can do anything on his behalf.

    Kindly guide sir as always!

    Thank you, God Bless Always!

  3. Sir, Pls reply to my queries!


    • sal,
      help yourself.

      • Thank you Sir, I have seen good difference with my chanting. The person has become more open for accepting new. All thanks to your guidance. Also i feel better myself and happy.
        Lots of blessings and gratitude to you.

        The same person for whom i am chanting, is in software and is having financial difficulties from 2 last years, talks are on but contracts do not get sign, if they happen then receiving payment from them is a issue. Pls tell me what can i do for the same.

        Thank you sir for all your help always!

  4. Dear Naran,

    Greetings to you!

    I have friend who is going through trouble. His brother in law need money to invest in land in a pilgrim spot, which seems to be dead investment. They tried indirectly to communicate their lack of inclination in this project, but have failed. Would like to know how to resolve this problem through any of the remedies. The person is worried to directly say no as he is worried that it might hurt his sisters life.

  5. kamakshi
    take the flower remedies centaury gorse larch willow

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